In talking with my therapist, my next project is to better learn to sit with and work through anger. I tend to seize up and refuse to get angry, because I feel like I shouldn’t get angry or like things aren’t worth getting angry about, but that’s not how a feeling works.
Here is a list of things that piss me off.
- When I go to empty the dishwasher and the stuff inside isn’t dry yet.
- When someone close to me makes a shitty, sexist comment and I can’t say anything about it because I’d be “overreacting.”
- When a grocery store bagger is obviously not trying to group like things together. Milk and bread but then another bag with (cold) juice and cereal? Really?
- The multitouch scroll function on my new computer is really shaky and imprecise.
- When I go to a coffeeshop to get some work done and the internet doesn’t work there.
- When I have a discussion on the internet and the other person will not even consider what I’m saying.
- Argumentum ad hominem. There’s absolutely no use in insulting the person you’re trying to argue with. What’s an argument for if not to settle something?
- When people use honesty as an excuse to be needlessly disparaging or condescending.
- How the character on Girls I most resonate with is Hannah, ugh.
- When I’m cooking and I know I screwed something up but I’m not done cooking and I have to finish what I’m cooking knowing it’s not going to be as good as it could.
- When people at work throw their money down on the register in front of me without looking at my outstretched hand.
- When I think about the fact that, more likely than not, I am going to miss a week of blogging this year and I won’t have properly met my goal.
- When someone tells me a poem of mine is “overwritten.”
- When people at work feel the need to explain why they want their groceries double-bagged (I’m taking a bus, I have to go up a flight of stairs, last week I got cans too and the bag broke, I use them for my cat, I use them for recycling) instead of just asking for it. It’s not a reserved, preferential treatment.
- When people at work do anything, really.
What (inexplicably or explicably) pisses you off?